In order to be able to be in God's will I have to be out of my own. If my goal is to be in God's will all the time then I need to go through some processes to purge myself of pride, self-will, selfishness, self-esteem, and all the other things that cause me to think about myself first and God second. Those processes will lead me through a journey that will involve humility, strengthening my faith, and will ultimately result in holiness.
